Just because my life is still chaos, my blog entry for day 24 is pretty simple. It makes me laugh at how true this is to my wishes....

Pictures are my friends. I love taking them, I love playing with them (on the computer and/or scrapbooking), I love looking at them. I'm not the best photographer, but I'm good at what I do.
How does one organize pictures? If they are printed, Clever Container has an awesome Photo Organizer that does the job well without damaging your pictures if you need to store them for a long time.
On the computer is another thing entirely. I recently purchased software from Creative Memories (I know several awesome consultants if you need one). It's called Memory Manager. The coolest thing about this software is the organizing system. As you go through your photos, you can sort them several different ways and it can access the photos in different categories...it's kind of like tagging them. I really like it. Honestly, there are probably a bunch of programs out there that do the same thing, but this one I earned for free by hosting a party, so I got it...free is good.
So there you go, that's how I organize my photos. Now I need to go take some.
Okay, I have another fail. This one had more to do with a technological error. I tried to post, but it wouldn't upload from my phone because I was in the middle of nowhere with no service. Anyhow, I have my post for the weekend and we are just going to leave it at that.
This weekend I am getting hand me down clothes for my girls from their cousin. Before these clothes go into the drawers or closet, I'm taking out a bunch of other clothes that they don't or can't wear. These clothes are separated into 2 piles, trash and hand to the next kid(s). Anything that has a stain/hole/otherwise messed up goes to the trash. The other goes into a bag.
Here's the trick that makes all the difference in the world: get rid of the bag the same day that you collect it from the drawer. If it is going to someone not close by, put it in the mail that day. If it's going to a friend, give it to them that day. If it's being donated somewhere, do it that day. Don't leave the bag somewhere that makes it become clutter in your house. Consider that step to be the last step in cleaning those drawers and don't do it until you have time to finish the job.
I've found that if the bag doesn't disappear, someone will find it and want the stuff back. Then the clutter spreads everywhere again.
Just finish it.
Okay, so technically it's not the 7th. I messed up. I missed a day. I'll make it up with 2 blog posts today.
Since I messed up on creating my habit, I think I'll talk about that. Habits are formed when you determine to do something consistantly for a length of time, right? Did you know, though, that backsliding is actually an important step in creating the habit too?
The goal for me is to become more organized, and in this specific case, blogging about it consistantly every day. Creating a habit. Missing a day can do one of 2 things: it can make me give up, or it can make me all the more determined to create the habit. It's all a matter of what I choose to do about my mistake.
At the moment my choice is clear, I choose to become more determined. If I make another mistake, my determination will hopefully increase again. I hope I do not slip again, but it could happen. The choice is still open with every failure, but if your determination builds every time you fail, you will eventually reach your goal.
Failure isn't bad unless you don't learn from it.
Today I am inspired by a visit to the ER with my son who had a seizure.
What is to be organized with an emergency visit to the hospital? Well, everything runs much smoother when you have all your important medical information in one place. My son visits the doctor often. I keep all his information in my purse. I keep it there because of emergency visits like the one we had today are far too frequent. My girls have a separate file that is at home, but easy to grab.
What is in their file? Doctor cards, shot records, information about significant past visits to the doctor, and lists of all medication that is being taken. My son's shot record is actually in that file at home with the girl's stuff, I have the doctor cards and medication information in my purse as well as a list of all important dates (date and time of last seizure, last time he got a shot, last doctor visits, etc). It's the abbreviated version for ER doctors who can look up most things on the computer.
Going to a regular office visit, I bring the entire file, a list of any questions or concerns that I have, and about 5 things for my child(ren) to do in case we have to wait a while. That means a video game, a small pack of crayons and paper, stickers, an MP3 player, or anything else that is small and doesn't have a lot of pieces. All this goes in a little bag for them to carry. I like to use reusable shopping bags because they ar easy for the kids to carry and hold a lot of stuff conveniently.
I know most parents have this down after the first year and all those doctor visits, but since I'm blogging every day and visiting the doctor is obviously on my mind, I figured I'd share that. Tomorrow is going to be fun...I have an IEP (it's a school thing for special needs kids...I'll explain better tomorrow) so I'll be talking about being organized for school meetings.
I have to admit, my husband does most of this. He's amazing. He gets up with the kids every morning and gets them ready. I'm up in time to speed things up and do hair for my girls.
The thing that I've always gotten wrong is I don't set things out the night before. I know in my head that it would make things run smoother, but I just don't do it. I love it that my girls make decisions about their clothes and we work together to build the outfit. I could do that the night before, but I know that I'm always in a hurry to get them to bed, so it's difficult to focus on the next day in the midst of that.
Still, it's just an excuse.
I'm working on it. My plan (I have a lot of plans) is to begin putting their clothes together in complete outfits when I'm folding and putting away clothes. Then I want to get the Handbag file from Clever Container and put the outfits in the sleeves there. That way the girls have complete outfits ready that they can see and they don't have to go searching around for the stuff to make an outfit. Having putting it away like that makes me use less time because I will be eliminating the step of doing it every day.
That's the plan. Stay tuned to see if it works. I'm going to get at least one of those handbag files this month to test it out...I just have to afford it first.